Considering your circumstances when going through divorce

On Behalf of | Aug 1, 2019 | Firm News |

Getting a divorce is a complex process. Though you and many other Kentucky residents may wish you could just decide to no longer be married and end the situation there that is not the case. Over the years, you and your spouse have entwined your lives, and now, you will need to work to separate the many facets of your lives to once again live as single individuals.

The exact details of your marriage and your family dynamic could indicate how difficult your legal proceedings could be. For instance, if you do not have children, you do not have to worry about child custody proceedings like divorcing parents would. Therefore, you want to begin your process by gaining information and helping yourself understand what you may face.

Understand your finances

Finances are a major part of ending a marriage. If you did not handle the daily financial affairs of the household, you may not know exactly what your marital finances look like. As a result, you may want to take the time to gather account records, copies of important financial documents and anything that you think could play a part in the outcomes of your divorce, especially when it comes to property division.

Divorce is not the time for revenge

Your marriage may be ending because your spouse had an affair or simply because he or she no longer has the same feelings for you. Whatever the reason, you may feel hurt and angry that your marriage is coming to an end. Although many people have the urge to hurt their spouses during the divorce process as a way to get even, such as by arguing every point or trying to leave the other party with nothing, revenge-seeking during this time will only make the process more difficult.

Address your emotions

Though your emotions do not need to have a starring role in the courtroom, you still need to take care of yourself during this time. Rather than allowing feelings of hurt and resentment to fester, you may want to find ways to help yourself relax and heal. It may even be wise to consider enlisting the help of a therapist during this time.

Have various support

In addition to a therapist, you may also want to add other people to your support team. Close friends and family can certainly help you work through the process, and it is wise to have legal support throughout your case as well. An experienced divorce attorney could explain the process ahead and allow you to understand how your specific details could affect your case.